Your Venus Sign Dating Secrets – Venus in Pisces

The number one quality you are seeking in a lover is sensitivity if you have Venus in this sign. Artistic or spiritual inspiration is another thing that makes your heart beat faster as does the idea of a fairy-tale romance coming true. You feel emotional connections not just on a one-to-one basis but often feel connected to all of life. You believe life should be and is beautiful. You hate cruelty to both people and animals, boring practical matters and people without the imagination or soul to realise there is a deeper meaning to existence.

Pisces is the 12th house in the zodiac and in astrology indicates where we were before we were born and where we are heading next. So, if you feel a yearning for a soul mate and the kind of connection that extends back over many lifetimes, this is the reason why. Pisces rules anything that exists but cannot be seen – the spiritual realm for example. The ruling planet of Pisces is Neptune which brings us inspiration and the flowing of intuition but which also rules addictions, illusions and places of confinement such as hospitals, hospices and prisons.

So, why are you still single? Well, for one thing you are so good at seeing the potential in people that this blinds you to the reality – that they are incapable of living up to that potential. It’s all too easy for you to drift off into a romantic fantasy and ignore reality. Disappointment and heartbreak can follow. Because of your empathic nature and need to heal wounds – real and on a soul level, it is also easy for you to take on ‘lame ducks’ – people that need fixing on some level or else people who have problems with addiction, mental instability or even the law. If any of the above are ringing some loud bells then the answer to the first pattern is to take your time to really get to know the ‘real’ person. Let’s face it, we are all on our best behaviour at the start of a relationship and it is only after a few weeks that who we truly are begins to emerge. Don’t be afraid to apply the three month rule when dating someone new if your complaint in the past has been that s/he suddenly changed. The answer is – they didn’t – this was who they were all along. If you have a history of attracting ‘broken’ people on some level who end up making you feel drained, confused or taken advantage of, then the answer lies in first fixing up yourself as you are attracting these people due to your own desire for soul healing. Once you identify and heal the issue, you will simply stop attracting these kinds of relationships.

Because your Venus sign is associated with universal empathy and compassion, anyone who works for a charity could be very much on your wavelength and chances are with this Venus you could already be active on some level with fundraising for a good cause. Immersing yourself further will not only show your universal love but could well bring love to you on a personal level. Strangely, because you are drawn to people whose jobs require them to tune in to a muse or take leaps of inspiration, you could well resonate with someone who works in the fields of theoretical physics or maths. Activities which draw on creative inspiration – painting, writing, photography, film making, acting are other good areas to meet potential partners. Despite being spiritual not many people realise you like a touch of glamour in your life as well! Pisces rules the feet and of course is all about healing so complimentary medicine especially reflexology could again be what your other half is involved with.

Your ancient ruler was Jupiter who rules large animals but in mythology it was Poseidon (Neptune) who created the horse. If you love horses or riding then getting involved in this area could literally bring you that knight in shining armour you’ve always dreamed of!

Your ideal Venus in Pisces match could be working as:

A podiatrist or reflexologist

A prison warden

A plumber

A deep sea diver

A sailor

A therapist

A psychic

A theoretical physicist

An artist

A shoe designer or in a shoe store

With horses

A fisherman

A carer

A psychiatrist or psychologist

A shaman

A charity worker

A member of a humanitarian organisation

An astronaunt

Remember, if love has been elusive – be open-minded. That is what these Venus dating guides are all about. There is no need to sign up for an activity if it really doesn’t appeal to you. However, if you find yourself at a venue or attending something in your list or which brings you into contact with the themes or people I have mentioned, then be on high alert – love could be found where you least expect it!





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