Your Venus Sign Dating Secrets – Venus in Capricorn

If you have Venus in Capricorn then age in some way shape or form is going to be a theme with you – as is the desire for that serious lover. Capricorn is ruled by Saturn which governs time, maturity and establishment. People with Venus in Capricorn may find that when they are younger they are attracted to older partners and when they are older, younger ones. Of all the Venus placements this is the one most likely to put you in a May/December romance – and possibly to experience both sides of it in your lifetime. Venus in Capricorn rules Cougar Town. However, no matter what your age you do need a partner you can take seriously.

Another way the ‘age’ issue around Venus in Capricorn may manifest is that you may defy conventional thinking about the ‘right’ age to marry. Remember that whole thing back in the ‘90’s about how a single woman over 40 was more likely to be held hostage by terrorists than get married? Implicit in all this was the feeling that if you were held hostage by a terrorist you were highly advised to ask if he were single. Needless to say, Venus in Capricorn is one of those placements where people may file you under ‘never getting married’ only to have to remove you from this designation at an age where conventional thinking says you are going to remain single forever. Venus in Capricorn often delivers happiness in love later in life and sometimes we have to go through quite a few disappointments before we get there. If you have Venus in Capricorn the message is: All good things come to s/he who waits – and all in good time.

Capricorn is the 10th house of the zodiac which rules our career, our status or if you are a woman also the status of your partner, recognition, fame and honours. Saturn rules structure and establishment. There may be a tendency to choose a partner in one of the ‘established’ professions – especially banking and medicine but what concerns you most of all is your partner’s commitment to what they are doing. Can I take you seriously? is the question you should be asking yourself when looking for a mate. You love classic style, sophistication, status that is earned, a certain dignity, potential lovers who know who they are and therefore what they want. Hates? The superficial, the gaudy, benefit cheats or anyone who rips off any system, trashy talk/clothing and pointless sex. The chances of you Keeping Up with the Kardashians? About seventy five million to one. Best way to see Venus in Capricorn in action is to watch Working Girl with Melanie Griffith.

Seeing as you usually have a pretty good idea as to what you are seeking in a partner why are you still seeking? You are a stickler for convention and this could be what is holding you back. Instead of going with your feelings you may be worried about what your family, friends or more likely society is going to think of your choice. Now, don’t get me wrong here. Our family and friends usually know us the best and sometimes we do need to pay attention to what they are saying about our choice of mate. However – you may be rejecting someone on the grounds of what you believe they may think rather than what their actual reactions may be when they get to know a living, breathing human being. And as for what society may think – so what? If a big age difference doesn’t worry your partner then why should you worry about what ‘society’ may label your relationship?

Here are just a few of the professions your Venus in Capricorn will be drawn to:


Saddle maker


Doctor – especially an orthopaedic surgeon




Sculptor or stonemason

Structural engineer


Professional abseiler


Historical researcher


Anybody ‘self made’ who enjoys a serious professional reputation for what they have achieved and/or established

Remember, if love has been elusive – be open-minded. That is what these Venus dating guides are all about. There is no need to sign up for an activity if it really doesn’t appeal to you. However, if you find yourself at a venue or attending something in your list or which brings you into contact with the themes or people I have mentioned, then be on high alert – love could be found where you least expect it!





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